Able to help me push my boundaries, but also able to not push me past my limits. Anyhow, I try not to mention his name at all when Im with men now. (I'm not toned or perfect, just a normal curvy woman with flaws, so please don't expect anything that you wouldn't see everyday in the street) I love meeting new people and experiencing new and different things, dicretely if need beand i am not looking to change my situation, just wanting to experiment swinging groups and have some fun. I love to please woman and have a good time with them. So at this point I'm just looking for a little intimacy with the friendship.